That's not a great example, you only have a sample size of one yourself.
Would not this explain why some of the traits of the INTJ resonate with you? I love stupidtly long walks just to myself, and I love the idea of a nice house in the middle of nowhere but with a decent internet connection, so I can work on ideas, develop my skills and learn new things. After all, they need to afford INTPs the same benefit, and meet them halfway with logic and simplicity as well. As parents, INTPs encourage competence and independent problem solving. For example, I have a preference of Perceiving over Judging, but if I were to put it on this scale